The Jonathon Letters
I just finished a book I would recommend to anyone who has adopted or is going to adopt. "The Jonathan Letters" By Michael Trout and Lori Thomas is a collection of e-mails between a therapist and a mom who adopted a troubled African American boy at four years old. The two did not meet til half way through their correspondence but were connected by a relative of Michael's. The descriptions of four year old Jonathan hit eerily close to home. Tantrums and rage and difficulty being loved. Lori at one point says unbreakable to her meant more difficult to break as her things had seen better days. But it was the first time I read an account of a troubled child by a mom. All the way through I said, "I've been there, I did that, I'm still there and maybe I'm not that abnormal after all!" Lori lives in Northern VA. Now to find her! With Eman's new travel team, comes new teammates who don't know him. One of the coaches asked me if I could sha...